So how can he just turn off his feelings like that?” I’ll try to discuss these concerns in the following article. He broke it off abruptly as soon as I found out. But what happens when she’s in his life one day and gone the next? There was no closure. He says my concerns are blown out of proportion and that I’m creating problems where they just don’t exist. I worry that he still has very intense and strong feelings for her, that he misses her, and that I will never be able to compete with this. I worry about his feelings because neither one of us can control those. He’s doing all of the external things right, but I worry about the internal things. I also believe that he’ll make good on his promise to try to save our marriage.
I believe that he’s stopped all contact with her. I recently heard from a wife who expressed these concerns by saying: “I’m afraid that my husband is still thinking about or longing for the woman that he cheated and had an affair with. We worry that even if the affair is over, he still thinks about her or even still pines for her. And, while we’re developing this preoccupation with her, we often assume that our husbands are still doing the same. It’s not at all uncommon to develop a sort of unhealthy obsession with her. By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who spend a great deal of time worrying about the woman that their husband had an affair with.
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